A donation gets them more than they bargained for. “Which color? Black or nude?” Normally, that’s a no-win question for a guy. She usually knows what she wants to wear. You either guess right, and confirm her good taste or you guess wrong and face a series of questions like, “What’s wrong with this one? Does it make me look fat?” But when she Teri asks about the color of pantyhose, she has my full attention.